Due to the coronavirus, many schools have gone remote. While teachers have put a tremendous amount of effort into making the transition from school, to school from home, as easy as possible…the fact is, it’s hard!
According to Education Week, school closures due to coronavirus have impacted over 124,000 U.S. schools and at least 55.1 million students. States have closed schools into late April or May, or even closed down for the remainder of the school year!
Parents, educators, and students have had to make the move to online or Distance Learning. This mode of teaching and learning is unfamiliar to most of us. We are all doing our very best to figure it all out, and quickly.
As an elementary school teacher, I am seeing a lot of students {and parents} doing okay with school from home, but many too, are really struggling. Especially our kiddos with special needs.
Challenges like technology {access and knowledge}, working...
Remotely Teaching social skills can be an interesting challenge. I have spent many years avoiding the use of technology in my social skills sessions. I felt my kiddos got plenty of screen time, and what they really needed was face to face interaction.
While I still believe this, we are currently in a situation where we simply must use technology to teach.
By playing games, of course!
But saying it is one thing…actually doing it is another thing all together!
Our students are dealing with so much right now. And on top of it all, they have to learn new technology and new appropriate behaviors to go with it.
I don’t know about you…but I have spent the first few weeks of remote teaching, remotely teaching my students how to behave appropriately on Zoom.
Engaging in a group on a video conferencing...
Many children who are typically developing find engaging in conversations to be quite easy. They have picked up on the necessary skills naturally and with informal practice over time and in their day-to-day interactions with others.
But for our kiddos with special needs, we may need a more explicit approach. Conversational skills often need to be broken down into small, manageable steps. Each of those steps may need to be explicitly taught, practiced, re-taught, practiced in multiple environments, and so on.
Before we talk about how to teach conversational skills, let’s talk about why to teach conversational skills.
Our students need to be able to engage appropriately in conversations, to have successful social interactions. However, this is not a quick and easy skill to teach, as there are many variables to consider.
Within the context of social interactions, we have many different types of conversations; from formal to informal, chit chat to...
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Engaging successfully in Perspective Taking requires a lot of “splinter skills.”
While there is a developmental scope and sequence for Perspective Taking, for our kiddos, development is usually uneven, and skills are often scattered; leaving us trying to figure out what to teach, much like a puzzle.
I recommend spending some time figuring out, as best you can, where the student is at {in their perspective taking development} and which skills are lacking. Then, start your teaching with the developmentally earliest skill on that list, and move along up the scale as you see success.
Here is a very basic overview:
Preschoolers: These kiddos are just starting to figure out that people can have different feelings than they do. This is at a very basic level…they mostly still think that other people share their feelings.
Kindergarten – Second...
Do you have a student who is always arguing and/or analyzing everything you {and their peers} say or do? Do they debate even the smallest of requests that you make? Do they become argumentative with peers, even those who are trying to be friendly to them, cause them to have few or challenging friendships?
Students who constantly argue can be very frustrating!
The first thing I always do, is try to pinpoint the reason for the behavior.
Why is the student engaging in this behavior? What is he/she trying to say? Beyond the words, what message is he sending?
Students who engage in this type of behavior are often seeking control. They want to control the situation, the conversation, the game, etc. This is usually due to challenges with; Rigid Thinking, Poor Understanding of Empathy, Poor Understanding of Point of View, Perspective Taking, and Fact vs. Opinion.
Some students also have low self...
Defiant behavior in the classroom is a reality for all teachers. Classroom teachers, special subject teachers and assistant teachers, all have to respond to a variety of defiant behavior(s), sometimes, on a daily basis. Defiant behavior(s) also affects the other students who share space with those who are struggling.
Some, experience severe behaviors. This post will address mild-moderately defiant behaviors. These are behaviors that are unsettling and/or disruptive to your teaching, including; non-compliance, arguing and being rude and disrespectful.
*The strategies discussed here and the Freebies passed along, are not intended for significantly defiant behaviors that may be dangerous to you or the student. Those behaviors and related strategies are outside of the scope of this blog post. For help with excessively aggressive or dangerous behavior, seek the help of a qualified mental health professional and or...
We all know how important it is to teach and support social skills. Year after year I see more and more children struggling to engage in even very basic social skills.
It’s important to teach social skills, explicitly in many cases, to our students. From kindergarten, all the way through elementary school…and in some cases, beyond.
Here are the 5 basic social skills that I like to teach in the kindergarten classrooms that I service:
Taking Turns
Below are some creative ideas for how to teach these important social skills in your day-to-day teaching. I hope you find some helpful ideas that you can quickly and easily add to your routine.
Sharing Ideas: Create many opportunities for your students to share by making materials limited. For example, during a cut and paste activity, put out one less glue stick than number of children at the table. Support...
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