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Engaging successfully in Perspective Taking requires a lot of “splinter skills.”
While there is a developmental scope and sequence for Perspective Taking, for our kiddos, development is usually uneven, and skills are often scattered; leaving us trying to figure out what to teach, much like a puzzle.
I recommend spending some time figuring out, as best you can, where the student is at {in their perspective taking development} and which skills are lacking. Then, start your teaching with the developmentally earliest skill on that list, and move along up the scale as you see success.
Here is a very basic overview:
Preschoolers: These kiddos are just starting to figure out that people can have different feelings than they do. This is at a very basic level…they mostly still think that other people share their feelings.
Kindergarten – Second...
Do you have a student who is always arguing and/or analyzing everything you {and their peers} say or do? Do they debate even the smallest of requests that you make? Do they become argumentative with peers, even those who are trying to be friendly to them, cause them to have few or challenging friendships?
Students who constantly argue can be very frustrating!
The first thing I always do, is try to pinpoint the reason for the behavior.
Why is the student engaging in this behavior? What is he/she trying to say? Beyond the words, what message is he sending?
Students who engage in this type of behavior are often seeking control. They want to control the situation, the conversation, the game, etc. This is usually due to challenges with; Rigid Thinking, Poor Understanding of Empathy, Poor Understanding of Point of View, Perspective Taking, and Fact vs. Opinion.
Some students also have low self...
Defiant behavior in the classroom is a reality for all teachers. Classroom teachers, special subject teachers and assistant teachers, all have to respond to a variety of defiant behavior(s), sometimes, on a daily basis. Defiant behavior(s) also affects the other students who share space with those who are struggling.
Some, experience severe behaviors. This post will address mild-moderately defiant behaviors. These are behaviors that are unsettling and/or disruptive to your teaching, including; non-compliance, arguing and being rude and disrespectful.
*The strategies discussed here and the Freebies passed along, are not intended for significantly defiant behaviors that may be dangerous to you or the student. Those behaviors and related strategies are outside of the scope of this blog post. For help with excessively aggressive or dangerous behavior, seek the help of a qualified mental health professional and or...
What’s more fun than using a treasure map to find buried treasure?! Honestly, I can’t think of anything. But besides fun, there are soooo many social skills that can be supported while using a treasure map to find “pirate treasure.” I like to use this treasure map, pirate theme activity to support the important social skills concepts of Teamwork and Cooperation.
After spending some time discussing and working directly on these two concepts, my students go on a treasure hunt to celebrate all of the wonderful skills they have learned and practiced. Beyond teamwork and cooperation, this activity will also support;
Just to name a few…
Material Prep:
Print Treasure Map on regular paper. To stain the edges of the paper to make it look old, dip a damp...
We all know how important it is to teach and support social skills. Year after year I see more and more children struggling to engage in even very basic social skills.
It’s important to teach social skills, explicitly in many cases, to our students. From kindergarten, all the way through elementary school…and in some cases, beyond.
Here are the 5 basic social skills that I like to teach in the kindergarten classrooms that I service:
Taking Turns
Below are some creative ideas for how to teach these important social skills in your day-to-day teaching. I hope you find some helpful ideas that you can quickly and easily add to your routine.
Sharing Ideas: Create many opportunities for your students to share by making materials limited. For example, during a cut and paste activity, put out one less glue stick than number of children at the table. Support...
1. Make It Less Painful: People are motivated to do something if it is less painful to do it than to not do it. When trying to motivate students, be sure to start by making doing the desired behavior, less “painful” than not doing it. In other words, try to make it fun, easy, and quick.
2. Make It Successful: People are motivated when a behavior meets with success. It’s very challenging to motivate someone to do something if they always fail when doing it. If the child has a history or memory of failing doing it, you will need to back up in...
As a special educator in a public school, I see lots and lots and lots of behavior contracts!
The way I feel about behavior contracts is the same way I feel about Social Stories… They can be very helpful when used properly, but are often over relied upon and can end up being ineffective without important “pre-work” and follow through.
In order to be successful with a behavior contract, the student must have the ability to perform the skill asked of him/her. For example, even if you offered me a gazillion stickers {or dollars}, to join a pro wrestling team…I couldn’t do it. I just don’t have the skill. I might be VERY motivated to get the reward, but if I don’t have the skill, It doesn’t matter how motivated I am. I won't be able to do it.
Often, we believe students lack motivation, when they actually lack skills. Of course, lacking skills, may then lead to a lack of motivation…after all, it’s...
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